bnardhiew

Woohoo 大日子

2010-01-08T01:29:00.002+08:00

Some people say Malaysian movie tak boleh.
Well, I say we never watch, we never know,
We never try, we never improve. So,why not?

Jan 14th 2009
Let you Smiling also kena touch... 让你笑着感动 =）

Its Christmas Eve and Im getting ready baybeh!!!

2009-12-24T03:46:00.003+08:00

27th December 2009.

2009-12-19T15:18:00.001+08:00

See you there?
Sungai Wang at 3pm

《大日子Woohoo》

2009-12-08T13:28:00.003+08:00

Remember a few months ago, i went to kuantan to shoot a Movie?
There.... the 1st 100% locally produced Chinese New Year Movie lehhh.
hahaha.
It has been confirmed, the movie will be out nationwide on 14th January 2009!!

Very excited and blessed to be involved.
Thank you Lord. =)

Here is the trailer.
Support local production ya!!

Oops a Daisy

2009-11-06T18:20:00.006+08:00

A friend reminded me to update my blog just now.
Only did i realize that I havent been updating this blog since July!!
Terribly sorry bloggies, and all of you who according to her, have been wondering what ive been doing.
So sorry.

You see, i started a fan page on my facebook. yup =)
And some of you who have been on my facebook, would have noticed that i changed my profile name. haha

Well the story is like this.
There has been a lot of people adding my facebook.
But the thing is, I'm just not used to adding people that i dont know, or havent spokent to into my facebook and call them my FRIENDS.
When in actual fact...they're not.
So i changed my profile name , and instead have my Facebook Fan page called BERNARD HIEW

Then you may be asking, wahhh, so 大牌 ah?
Its not that, its just that, i dont see the point of adding until your account exceeds the limit, and you need to open another account, and worse at the end of the day, when people ask you who is "A", all I can say is...
"Errr, i dont know, I dont know him. He's just in my list"
And im sure you wouldnt appreciate being label like that right?
I know I wouldnt. =(

Thats why, I make sure I only add people i do know, or have spoken to, or at least, make an effort in getting to know them. (Be it via facebook, or any other mediums)

But, after talking to other celebrities around, trust me, a lot of ppl have problem with this, and i have to say, Ive heard of interesting ways of how they manage thier account.
But, i think the best way to treat BERNARD's Friends /Fans
(Ahem,...yes i DO have fans ook!!?? SUCK IT!!!) is to start a FAN PAGE!!

So, i started one, by myself. yays!
Its a FACEBOOK FANPAGE.

So, wat do i do to those "friends" who have been sitting on my facebook friend request?
Ahah! i personally msg them one by one asking them to join here:-
(or just search for "Bernard Hiew")

Hee hee.
Yup, so quickly add me there.
Get your brother, your sister, your father, your mother, your aunty, your uncle, your grandpa, your grandpa, your brother's fren, your sister's fren, your father's fren ...you get the idea*
to add me la.

hahaa =)
Yes, ive been busy with work.
And updating my fan page.

*cool huh?* haha

Who wanna be a DJ?

2009-09-30T03:37:00.002+08:00

This made my day that day :

DJ: “请问，马来西亚所用的钱币是怎么称呼的呢？”
Mr: “哦~块”
DJ: “哈?"
Mr: ”块啦，一块，两块啊！“

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAA
Die oh, i tell you if everyday meet ppl like this!!

Boom Boom Pau!!

2009-09-26T12:50:00.007+08:00

Spending the malay festive season in Kuantan has been quite an interesting experience. There was a lot of "Boom Boom Paus" goin on, but you dont seem to see any police cars around, which we see alot during our cny.

Lots of people have been asking what im doing in Kuantan, was told not to reveal anything, but only a few days ago, the director said it was ok to reveal.
Sigh.
Please forgive me for keeping the lid, but you know la, gotta be professional mah.
Im shooting a CNY movie called 《大日子，Wohoo》, which is scheduled to be in the cinemas nationwide on CNY. duhhhhhh～　

I really enjoyed myself.
I could still remember dreaming of being a motion movie actor when i was a kid. I remembered watching all the movies, and taking anything that resembles a pistol,chuck it at the side of my pants, and hide behind the corner of the wall, sneaking, spying, on the enemies,and then rush out pointing the gun and shout out " CAI YAN, MOU YUK!!" *POLICE,dont move*
=)

From a boy dreaming, to naively raising my hands in church one find sunday to volunteering to sing solo even though i didnt knw wat was solo, to church dramas, to church mc, church choirs, praise and worship team, to college events, to MTVvj, to astro Tv Host, to billboards,interviews, to events, to invitations to be a recording artitste,and now haha, an actor.

Wow, what a journey.
Thank you Lord for your abundant blessings.
But above all, Thank you Lord, for always being there.
All Glory and Praise to You!

Here are some pics, others coming soon. =)

The Director, The Set

The Scene

The Star Rest

The Star's Crib

The Star's Crib's Morning's View ( hahahaha)

And of course, the Star! hahah

Its September..Wohooo

2009-09-12T15:01:00.004+08:00

Am currently in Kuantan for work.
And look where they put me up ?
A beach resort!! Wohoo!

Duta Sands Resort, not bad for a resort that has been here for the past 15years. Quiet, calm, not too many tourist. And i guess the best thing bout this is, that the whole resort is fully booked by the whole production crew and production talent.

Its kinda like a working holiday kinda thing. Im not complaining. =)

Since there are days that we're working full days, but there are times when we just sit and relax. And thats the time when i get to sit down, and think and think...and kinda think bout wats been going on in my life so far.

And of course, time for bonding with the people around me.
And today, its Mr. JH ( He specifically said not to mention its him) , and i thought this is hilarious.

So, this KL Famous Host friend of mine, hehe, he rarely see beach, he got excited, went down to the beach and started playing with the sands, and the waves. And then after playing around, he layed down on the sand, facing the sun and fell asleep for 30 minutes..

Yup, and he got this.. WOHOO =)

This week, with E神.

2009-07-09T20:57:00.006+08:00

Went over to TARC, to do an episode with Eason.
The line was very very long even hours before the show was scheduled to start.

As Royce and myself got ready to shoot with the crowd, there were people calling for RnB!! haha, not bad, we thought nobody's gonna knw who we were pula.
Thank you TARC. Your hospitality and reception was awesome.

Interview with Eason was really fun.
Really down to earth, and could still feel some tiredness from his eyes.
But a real professional.
We did our stuff, and he was really easy goin.

Uusah.
But mana tau, in the episode kena main by ROYCE to go up stage to sing pula.
walewww.
hehe.
oh wells.
its all good.

Catch This week's full episode Eason.
Saturday 9pm Astro Aec 301!!

Meet 小小"Xiao Xiao" RnB

2009-06-20T16:21:00.004+08:00

HAPPY FATHERS DAY
From 小小RnB.

This week is one of my favourite episodes =)
Hee Hee
Oh, we've got a fans club on FB already.
Click here and join !!
Check out the vids.

God Bless

Thanks =)

2009-06-13T04:53:00.003+08:00

Hey guys, thanks for being patient.
Thousand apologies for not updating the page.
Wanna take this oppurtunity for those who have been watching our show regularly.
And especially for supporting us thus far.

《MYASTRO 至尊流行榜》a.k.a 《MYASTRO Chart Show》
The program Im hosting with Royce has rescheduled its time to:
Tx Date: Saturdays 9pm.
Repeats Sun 10am, Mon 6am, Thu 10am.
Channel: Astro Aec 301

This week in the show, I met up with ...

Its a Sunday, and i feel like laughing =)

2009-04-12T18:00:00.001+08:00

My Resolution Came Late This Year

2009-04-08T15:32:00.004+08:00

Heys, sorry for missing out on action for a while.
Been very busy, arranging for my school as well as my new show.

What better way to start off the post with a GREAT news =)
I've decided what i wanna do for the rest of this year already. Haha

People who know me well, would know that I'm someone that thinks alot.
And lately, I realized that a lot of times, everything seems SOOO organized.
And worse, is when i get into this mode, I kinda get distracted from what I have at the moment.

So, I have decided that i dont wanna be a sad boi anymore.
I wanna be a happy boi!!!!
Carpe Diem!! Sieze the DAYYYY!!

No More

Happy Bnard in Singapore having his Happy New Year =)

2009-01-08T16:34:00.002+08:00

The things you can do in public where people don't recognize you.. =)

CoUZ Talentnite 08!!

2008-11-10T20:00:00.003+08:00

Everyone's got talent!!
So, come on and register and stand a chance to win!

Grand Prize: RM500
Audition :15th November 2008
Time:7pm onwards
Location: SIBKL Sanct 2, Level 4, Bangunan Yin, Section 16/11,Jln Damansara

Register now, and stand a chance to win RM500.
Registration opens until 15th November itself!!

It was my Bday and i had three wishes...

2008-11-02T19:46:00.004+08:00

...yes, and i still have trouble making up my mind.... hahah =)

There's something fishy about making wishes.
I mean, a wish. A wish!!!
So, what's suppose to happen after we make it?
I mean, its different from a prayer.
ITS A FRIGGIN WISH.
Do we need to earn it? Do we need to work for it?
Who decides if we get it?
Or do We eventually get our wishes?
If we do, is it pure coincidence?
If we dont, does it mean that wishes dont work?

Sigh..
A wish. hahaha,
If we beleive it doesnt have any significance , why do we still do it?
But if we do believe in it? What's the logic behind it?

HAHAHa
If some of you are annoyed with my post already.
That means, I've got you thinking already.
Because, sometimes we do things for the sake of doing.

Really, why do we do things that we do not believe in; or
are we believing in the things that we do?

*thinking caps on again*
=)

Interesting thought

2008-10-29T02:47:00.003+08:00

The other day, I met a few friends, and we came to talk about what they would want to achieve before turning 30. And I thought to myself,
“Shit, that’s not very far away.”

And of course, they mentioned the normal things that I’ve heard what most guy n gurls would say; wanting to own a house, earn 5 figure, settle down, get married, own a BMW, but amongst it all, there was the desire to be walking in the plans that God had for them.

Then it triggered me.

“What if God’s plan was never for all of us to achieve what WE want before 30?”

What made us think that Blessing us equates to earning 5 figure? Interesting huh?

24Then Jesus said to his disciples, "If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. 25For whoever wants to save his life[a] will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me will find it. 26What good will it be for a man if he gains the whole world, yet forfeits his soul? Or what can a man give in exchange for his soul? 27For the Son of Man is going to come in his Father's glory with his angels, and then he will reward each person according to what he has done. (Matthew 16:24-27 NIV)

So, what do YOU want to achieve before you hit 30?
*thinking caps on*

So What Happens When A Man Loves A Woman?

2008-09-30T01:08:00.002+08:00

I used to think that when a guy likes a girl, that he should own it, be responsible about it, and go up to a girl and tell her literally that he likes her. And THAT would make him a real man. Most girls think that should be the case too.

But then, and as I correlate with today’s fast-moving culture, and the lady’s expectation from movies, novels, or just mere friend’s stories AND from many other sources (shall not comment of women’s source of info..hehe), I come to a stage where I asked myself and to all the ladies and men who are reading..

Does it ever occur to women that maybe a guy might like to have a plan because he’s nervous? He’s not sure that he could just walk up to you and you’d respond if he said ,

“ I like you.” (think bout it for a sec)

I recently came across an interesting fact from a book. (Yes, I do read! *ding* another good point of Mr. Bernard Hiew! Wohoo )

Studies have shown that 60% of human communications are non verbal. That means body language; 30% is your tone. So that means, 90% of what we’re actually saying…is not coming out from our mouth wan!
And yet she’s wondering why he never SAY he like me wannnn~?

So, does it mean he likes you less, or does it mean he means it any lesser if he doesn’t say it (those three words) to you verbally?

Matter a fact, most guys has tried being verbal about it, and then they crash and burn with it. Moreover, most of my girl friends tell me from their personal experience that, they really do not prefer guys that they don’t like to be so direct. They prefer them to be ‘brief’ so that it can be less awkward etc.
But that leaves an interesting question.. How then can it be inconsistent, and isn’t that a lil unfair that she expects it to be otherwise from someone she likes?

If your still reading, I’m assuming that you’re going with my flow, or your just kehpoing HAHA, nah I take that back! Hehe.
But I guess the next possible question is; Then how does it happen? How do you know whether he’s for real, if he doesn’t say it? How do we all know what he even says is going to be true?

Then allow me to ask you this, Is it merely weighted by what he says, or not say? What about his actions? Does his action really speak louder than words? Is he honest? How about his character? Or do you just prefer the word part? Coz we all know players are good with words as well no?

Well, we can’t say for sure. Nothing is certain. But I guess what I can say is that you’ll know. Coz one moment, your super happy with him/her, when he/ she sms you, what he/she says matters than what other says, or even when he/she makes you irritated, you find that the smallest thing he/she does can make you forgive. Then next, you’re wondering how is he/she doing … =)

So ladies?

Note:
Do note that I still am in favor, and my hats off to all the guys, who chooses to be verbal about it. I personally think it’s still cool no matter which century we are in. I’m in no way of encouraging guys to not be verbal about it. But, it’s just an observation that I’ve come across, and I thought that it might be a help to all the fellas and all the ladies to understand each other better =) And yes, would like to hear what you all have to say bout it. And we see where we go from there?

I'm NOT going to US laa..

2008-09-19T00:31:00.006+08:00

A lot of you have been wondering when I'm leaving for US.
hahaha.
IM NOT la.
hahah

Guess most of you have been watching TV ey?
hahah, yeah, went and shoot Ready TO Fly, an all new traveling game show.
The idea of the game is, to collect as much mileage as you can through answering questions, and choosing numbers.
HAHAHA, sounds simple right? Yes, its that simple.
BUT winning it is another thing.
hahah

Was invited with other artist friends to shoot the first episode,
Was asked where i would wanna go, if i win the game, told them LA.
hahaha.
Since its free, might as well go all the way to US la.
But yeah, didnt win that far.
Ended up with only Hotel package, and goody bags, and expensive stuff!
hahah

STILL BETTER than Anthony's Melaka trip!!
HAHAHAH!!

"Ready To Fly"
Saturdays 9:30pm ASTRO WLT311
Check it Out!
*p.s CLICK HERE

Look What I Found?

2008-09-10T00:15:00.000+08:00

Sometimes ahhh... I dunno Why Ppl Complain About Work Wan Lo?

2008-09-01T16:27:00.005+08:00

I Love My Family!

2008-08-19T00:59:00.008+08:00

So, my lil cousins came over with my Grandma and Uncle the other day.
When the kids saw me, they ran up, with arms wide open.
“KOKO……！！”
Gave me their Biggest hug around my butt. Hahaha.

It was just a hug I know. But it was really something.
I guess, I really missed my family.

I took the kids for shopping!
Brought them to a toy store, and told them, they could only choose one.

Poor Jonas. He really had a hard time!
Hahaha

Then we started taking pics, when we found out...

Jonas dunno how to wink..
HAHAHAAHA

Like any other Hiew he kept on learning himself, INDEPENDENTLY, on the magical tecnique needed to ｍａｓｔｅｒ　ｔｈｅ skill of ｔｈｅ　ｗｉｎｋ！ (*manually*)

HAHAHA,
Is'nt he just adorable?

Update Update

2008-08-13T14:12:00.003+08:00

Heys, for some of you who were wondering what have I been busy lately.
I'm hosting a new program!!
"Hotlink Caller Ringtone Chart"
Every Saturday
5pm, Astro AEC 301
Check It Out

I'm Hosting E-News This Sat! haha

2008-07-24T02:28:00.003+08:00

Hahha,
Gonna be hosting E-News with Jym this weekend.

Catch us Live this Saturday 1pm!
AEC, Channel 301.

Woot Woot!

I'm Happy =)

2008-07-08T13:13:00.003+08:00

Everyday we rush in and out, going through things that we perceive as important to us.

Many a times, we look through the little things that makes us who we are.
Many a times, we take advantage of the things that seems ordinary to us.
Many a times, we forget the things that makes us contented.
And a lot of times, we do the things we do, because its norm, and worse of all, We are disillusioned by what makes us happy.

The other day, a friend of mine was asked,
"What is the thing that you feel your too old to do?"
"Sitting on 50 cents ride in shopping malls" she answered.

I remembered how much i loved sitting on those rides when i was younger.
I would plea with my mum to lemme ride on it.
Haha
I guess a lot of my guy friends had the same experience.
So, we decided to make ourselves happy.
And yes, we're not too old to do it!

P.S We went away very happy that day =)

I Did I Tell You What I've Been Up To? HAHA (Cont.)

2008-06-29T19:00:00.008+08:00

Hey, so the PT Foundation, in association with Ministry of Health, the Malaysian AIDS Council (MAC), Aquaria KLCC, join forces with Maya Karin and myself on May 18th (Which was also World Aids Memorial Day) to mark AIDS Memorial Day this year by installing a time capsule at Aquaria KLCC.

The event was organized to commemorate those who have died from AIDS, and acts as a timely reminder for every Malaysian and global citizen to renew the commitment to fight discrimination against People Living with HIV/AIDS (PLHIV) and arresting the scourge of HIV/AIDS. Since 2007 alone, 1.2 million people have died of AIDS related diseases.

I’m just glad that I got the opportunity to do the least that I could do. Yeah.. like… Swimming with the sharks. Yeh, coz since wer suppose to install a time capsule in the aquaria. And mind you there were 6 sharks in there. Not to mention the stingrays!!

Haven’t been diving lots since ive got my liscence, and now in with the sharks.
But nevertheless, I was dang excited! Not lots of people have the opportunity, and it was truly an experience. =)

Was asked what is it, a celebrity, I would like to get across regarding Aids, and sexual diseases. Since you guys weren’t there, so I thought I get it down over here.
I personally think that family play an important role in sexual education and sexual knowledge. Its just sad to see schools pushing the responsibility to families and vice versa. Whilst all this is going on, our kids get the info from other sources. And who else to tell us the truth aside from our parents who loves us =)
Yes, parents I know its hard and sometimes embarrassing..but really when you look at it.. Your kid is either gonna get the truth from you, or they’re gonna be told by the peeps out there. Your choice. Seriously, I have asked around, and I still haven’t met anyone who didn’t want to hear it from their parents. Most of the time, the parents just don’t talk about it.
See, we kids love getting Accurate and Reliable information wannn~

What The Heavens Is Going On With Us Ahh?

2008-06-05T21:22:00.006+08:00

Its funny somehow as we age with technology, we tend not wanting to reveal too much about ourselves.
I remember the days where say

“This is my space (i.e my blog), and over here, I say what I want to say, when I want to say it. And if you don’t like it.. SKRUU YEW maaaannn”
*Note: Bitchy Tone Applies Here”

We either have grown older, or more insecure about how people perceive us.
Or some of my mates say, we just don’t like to be known thoroughly, not by people we don’t know.

And as I ponder on this, I’ve got to agree to some extent, that I feel funny and somehow vulnerable when people I haven’t met before, come up to me and SUDDENLY straight away hits off the conversation with

“ Haiyarrr, You ahh, funny laaa, next time ahhh, dun simply put your laptop in the car laaaa??!!
Why you dunno wan mehh? Harrr?!! Harrr? HAHAHA!!”

Seriously, when someone like that come up to you,
I tellll youuuuuuuuuu arrrrrhhh...

It’s kinda hypocritical really.
I mean we’ve gotta agree to some degree, the reason why we blog so much about our emotions or our wants, or our visions on our space (ahem…i.e blogs)
Can’t be solely because we want an output for our emotions.
In some parts of our little ‘self centred’ soul, we want to be empathized, we want to be cared for, and we want attention.

And yes, most of the times, these attentions may somehow be breadcrumbs for the 'yu-kno-hu'
And if its not for you, PLEASE dun simply take ok!??!!
Haha

Therefore,
My conclusion:

(i) We are morphing into a very weird generation.
(ii) We are morphing into a very weird generation who wants attention.
(iii) We are morphing into a very weird generation who wants attention from 'yu-kno-hu'.
(iv) If your not the 'yu-kno-hu', you might get yourself baaad treatment and then you go write in your blog, wanting attention from your 'yu-kno-hu'.
(v) And then…when the fella that come to you is not your 'yu-kno-hu', they get baaaad treatment and…
(vi) Like I said, we’re morphing into a very weird generation.

I’m imagining now who of you is going to talk to me after this! haha

Did I Tell You What I've Been Up To? HAHA

2008-05-16T19:24:00.003+08:00

Alot of you have been asking
"豆腐卜你现在是在干什么？＂
"What's up with you lately??"

Hahaha, well ... I sorta went DIVING!!
yeah.. with Sharks!! HAHAH

Inspirations

2008-05-12T19:04:00.002+08:00

I dont usually post vids up.
But this was inspirational.
No wonder God loves a child's prayer.
Simplicity, Truth, in its purest form.

What I Did When I Was Emo

2008-05-08T00:21:00.004+08:00

I did this to me.
Wait till you see me.
HAHA

I am EMOing

2008-05-05T20:19:00.003+08:00

"After Yamcha, I went to my car and found a HOLE in the backseat window."

They broke my car rear window, took my laptop, my hardisk; all of them were all in a bag!
My info, my work stuff, my picssss alll gooooneee!!
But didnt take my BIBLE,and left it in the car!

NOOOOOOOOO~

So, the question to everyone is....
You think those who did this Christian or not harr?
Please, have a say.

p.s Yes, I'm very emo right now...

I'm In Bali

2008-04-21T18:27:00.004+08:00

Yes.. so, if you cant get me on the phone.
That's why. Hee Hee.

Anything just mail me la.
Or drop something over here.

=)

Cheeka Boom Boom Boom

2008-04-11T15:47:00.002+08:00

Its been a while since the last update.
Many things happend but its all good, went back to KK for a hols for a rest.
And i really enjoyed myself.
Spent a lot of time with my family, after all it WAS my grandma's 71st.

Here's a lil something that makes me smile all the time.
Hahah,my cousins fooling around

Heading back to KK

2008-03-12T00:54:00.002+08:00

Yays!
Am heading back to KK!!

Just got a call from my mum, and we're celebrating for my Grandma's 71st!!
and yes, Im flying back to KK!!
wohoooo..

so, yes, anyone gonna be in KK??
Catch up catch up.

=)

Been Trully Blessed

2008-02-29T01:27:00.005+08:00

Hey Hey, so sorry for not being able to update all of you for past month.
Have been bogged down with work. (Yes, im happy that there's at least work)
Its been a total different scenario now. Cant imagine that i used to wear tie, and slacks and leather shoes to office, and sit there.... and work. ALL DAY.

Gotta admit, im still not very used to the working hours and timing in this industry as yet la.

But thats not what i want to talk about this time.
This time, i just wanna take time to thank all of you.

For giving me oppurtunities, for beleiving in me, for the encouragement, for the support, for watching, for critisizing.
Thank you for being patient, for laughing at my lame jokes, for saying hi to me on the streets, for loving the show, for letting me know that you love the show, for letting me know your grandma, your mamma, and pappa love the show, and your lil cousinss too... Hahaha
and OH! for the angpows too. hee hee.

But apart from it all, i want to give thanks to my Lord Jesus Christ =)
Thank you Dad for being there for me, thank you for never forsaken me.
Thank you for it all =)

Its been a good half year.
Lets all work better in this coming one!
Thanks again.

"Its not how good you start the race that matters, its how well you END it that counts!" Lets end in it well!
God Bless

恭喜恭喜 =）

2008-02-05T23:53:00.000+08:00

Gong Hei Gong Hei!!!

How one year just pass by!
Just wanna take this time to wish all of you a Happy Chinese New Year!
Have a BLESSED one with your family and your loved ones ya!

At the same time, yes wanna promo promo abit about our program.

“MY-ASTRO 快乐倒鼠大团圆" LIVE on Astro AEC (301)
LIVE on MYfm
LIVE online at www.astro.com.my
Jenjarum Entrance FREEEEEE
9:30pm Live Telecast !!

And yessss…will be heading back to KK on the First Day of CNY!!
Wohoooooo~

For the many people who were wondering.

2008-01-31T01:37:00.000+08:00

Biiiii BBBbbbbbiiiiiii

Went down South to see the KING!!

2008-01-09T20:46:00.000+08:00

Hey people, Im back!!
Was on the road shooting for the program.
Enewei, will talk bout the trip another post...yup yup!! hahah, as soon as we finished shooting, went down south to watch the KING!
Yup, got great seats!!! thats why the pics are so close
*smiles* haha

The show was awesome! Jacky was still kickin!!
Trully enjoyed myself.
Thanks Sam =)

And to prove it... hee hee..

Off we go!!

2007-11-26T15:38:00.000+08:00

Yup,
we're heading off to shoot the next season already.
This time around...we're moving up north.
Places like Alor Setar, Kedah, Penang etc.
yup, we will be on the road for over a month.=)
(Yes, christmas too! this is gonna be exciting!!)

Many thanks for those of you who have really supported us thus far.
Trully appreciate you all.
Glad that you enjoy watching it as much as we enjoyed filming it.
So....Keep watching ya. =)

For those of you who have been asking.
The show is on Every:
Sun 6:30pm (its an half an hour show)

Repeats:
Mon -1030am
Tue -1430pm
Sat -1130am

Many thanks for all the prayers and wishes. Keep praying for us even as we embark on this new journey.

God Bless =)

Rush Hour

2007-11-25T20:08:00.000+08:00

So, what have i been doing?
Shooting Music Videos, going for interviews, doing alot of post production work.
And rushing through the night to come out with my column.
By the way, my column appears in Chinapress every Saturday. =)
hee hee.. yup! its in mandarin!

=)

L.E.A.R.N

2007-11-13T03:18:00.000+08:00

One of the things i have been loads for these pass few months has been one word-LEARN.

According to Wikipedia:
"Learning is the acquisition and development of memories and behaviors, including skills, knowledge, understanding, values, and wisdom. It is the product of experience and the goal of education."

Was in a photoshoot for a local fashion magazine, where i need to jump and take a shot.
Didnt know that you have to put sooo much concentration for every part of a pose that you make.
I asked the fashion director to "demonstrate a jump" for me when i found out apparently he has never taken pics in sets before.
So, I thought why not invite him in, and have him Teach me.

He made me promise him that we'll jump together. *hee hee*
Of course i didnt, i had to absorp as much as possible ma.
so i stood and LEARN lo.

*Classic*
Everyone (including himself) had a good laugh. Haha
I like =)

Got mee self a haircut

2007-11-02T17:35:00.000+08:00

One of the things i had to do when i came back was to get a haircut.
The next day after getting back here, i rushed to my hairstylist's place.

He took a look at it and smiled.
So, he told me he wanted to try something new.
so i said "Sure!"

And this is what happened.
Before-&-After

I KNOW!!!!! HAHAH
I had the SAME REACTION AS WELL!!!!

And Jimmy, my hairstylist said, "wow, looks soo guud!!"
I really nearly cried!! hahah
Until he did the styling and it ended up like this.

Very Stylo =)
Hahaha
Well, never hurt to give it a try! haha
I love the sides.
Super Funkay!

Sunday Sunday Sunday

2007-10-27T15:01:00.000+08:00

AEC LOCAL BELT CELEBRATION
Venue: Summit USJ
Date: 28 October 2007 (Sunday)
Time: 3pm

Yup, together with the rest of the Astro AEC hosts, we will be at Summit USJ tomorrow for a show.
Hahah, do drop by yeah?
Have a Blessed weekend peeps.

God Bless

Dwendee Phour!

2007-10-24T19:26:00.000+08:00

First of all,
Just wanna thank all of you who have been supportive all these while.
Thank you for being a part of my life.
Thank you being great friends all these while.
Thank you for being honest, thank you for being patient, thank you for listening, Thank you for the wishes, thank you for the calls, thanks for the encouragement, Thanks for the the corrections and for the prayers.
Appreciate it loads. =)

Yup im 24 already.
A friend was just reminding me that im a quarter century old.
haha.
Its been a good year.
A year of change, a year of reflecting back, and Praise God was given an oppurtunity, that not many people have.
An oppurtunity to view from two very contrasting scopes.
Most people talk about something that they themselves have never had experienced with.
I am very much blessed to be given to view it...first hand.
Thank You Lord.
Be with me even at this very time of need.

On a lighter note
A group of close friends threw me a suprise party last nite.
hahah.
I loved it. Simple, Small group, Great dinner, close friends, sit down.
Thank you soo much for being there peeps.
Appreciate you all.

I'm back

2007-10-20T14:09:00.000+08:00

Heyyyyyyyy...
Miss all of you soooo much.
Its been soo long since I've felt the keyboard!
(I know!! hahah..try remembering when was the last time you missed touching the keyboard? haha...can't right?)

Yup, am back in Kuala Lumpur now.
And...

Will be on MYfm as guest DJ! on Sunday 21st Oct 2007 2pm-4pm
Super nervous. Do call to the station and support support haha.

The TV show starts airing on this SUNDAY same day 6:30pm, Channel 301, AEC

More updates coming.
God Bless peeps.

Hey Peeps, Tau Foo Pok is doing fine =)

2007-09-15T11:06:00.000+08:00

Hey peeps.
Miss me? Miss me??
Yup, Tao Foo Pok is doing fine. (Yup, thats my nick in the show)
Am currently in Pahang now.
Really learning loads from all these.

You can log on Here to get my updates.
Coz wont be having internet access all the time.
So will be updating via mms.(as much as i can at least).
So do drop by, and leave some messages over there ok?

Thanks for the prayers and the support and of course, the wishes.
Trully appreciate all of it.
God Bless

Here We Go!

2007-09-09T02:48:00.000+08:00

Yup, and we're off for our shoot.
Will be back soon.
Please pray for journey mercies, pray for good weather.
Gonna miss all of you.

For those having exams, have a blessed one. For those flying off or flying back to studies, have a safe flight and a great time =)
And for those who are....well, working, give your best shot!
Would love to hear from you all. Will be checking my blog when i get the access tho.
Do drop some msg in k?

Keep an eye and ear on Astro AEC , MYFM, as well as THIS BLOG.

MYfm

2007-08-27T23:47:00.000+08:00

Yup its my first time being up on a radio station.
Yes, it was really a marvelous experience.

Headed to MYfm to introduce myself and also more importantly our show
"MOTORSIKAL" <摩哆嬉客>
21st October 2007, (Sun)(Premier Preview)
6:30pm (Every Sunday)
Channel 19

Had a great time in the studio with the two lively DJ 尹匯雰(Wan Wai Fun) and 陈志康 (Royce).
*They were really really professional, and really good*

Attended the interview with 湯小糠 (Tang Xiao Kang), who wrote the theme song for our show called "到此一遊"

Here are some pics.
Thanks for all who tuned in, and for the encouragement.
God Bless

Edited Post Things im seeing alot these days.

2007-08-20T19:03:00.000+08:00

*Edit*
Tonight 27.08.07, heading on to MYFM, 7pm interview =)
hee hee.

Have got a lot of people asking about the show.
But sadly, i cant really talk much about it.
Confidential laa.
So i thought i let you in on some of the things im seeing alot these days?
Hang on, its coming soon. =)
Pray for journey mercies and a blessed time of learning and discovering yeh.
Thanks

Last day Here

2007-08-08T20:56:00.000+08:00

Yup, most of you might have known.
Today was my last day of work here in KPMG.
Planning to continue my Professional Paper ACCA full time next year.

The job has been not a hard one to leave, but it has been truly rewarding.
Most of you might be still wondering why I went into accountancy in the first place. Haha
I don’t really blame you all. Haha
But I did. =)

Its been a great experience working here.
Learnt a lot, yup, as a corporate tax consultant. Wohooo.

Enewei, so what are my next plan?
Well, Here it is.
Ive got a call from Astro before I went to Bangkok and yeah…
To cut the long story short….
I’ve gotten an offer to host a TV program with Astro. Haha
Yeah.

They offered me to host a new traveling show, hosting alone, do it my style.
And yes, I’m happy with the offer.
The timing fits, the offer is acceptable. So I signed it.
Oh, did I mention that I’m hosting it in Mandarin??

Hahaha
The show will be on Astro AEC , Channel 19, called "Motorsikal "
Will be aired starting October.
So, yeah, ive signed the contract, and I’m having mandarin lessons, so if your in my car, and you wonder why I’m listening to Chinese radio? Now you know. =)

I had advice from Da King

2007-07-30T16:46:00.000+08:00

Disclaimer:
For some of you fine souls who have no idea of my homie here,
allow me to say that he is ACCTUALLY the most gentle and finest dude I've ever met serious waaannn), if he was available, he would be the first that i would recommend.
Like many heroes, he was blessed with the ability of mastering the art of FLIRT.
Mind you, he was known as Flirt King at the age of 10.
AND HE WAS FAT AT 10!!
Dun play play ohkay.

Had an interesting conversation with my homie last friday.
Yup, he thought me what he knew best...all the way from Perth.

jC says:
just say cheesy things
jC says:
something like
jC says:
in the cinema. when go watch movie..
jC says:
i say things like...
jC says:
wow.. i feel very uncomfortable..
jC says:
then she will say .. why ?
jC says:
because you not holding my hand
bnardhiew.blogspot.com- I've resigned =) says:
WHAT!!??
jC says:
lol
jC says:
i dont know where i got those balls to say that
jC says:
flirting is awonderful thing...
bnardhiew.blogspot.com- I've resigned =) says:
right.
bnardhiew.blogspot.com- I've resigned =) says:
I dont flirt with ppl i like wan la.
jC says:
i know what you mean lol
jC says:
i was like that too
jC says:
dont worry.. the balls to flirt with the girl you like will eventually come lol
bnardhiew.blogspot.com- I've resigned =) says:
yay, so excited for that new balls to arrive! -_-!!
jC says:
haha
jC says:
modify from plastic to steel balls

yey, i knw.
And to think thats he's still number one for being my best man. haha

About Natural

2007-07-23T13:34:00.000+08:00

Not sure if you would agree with me but,
I realized that it’s true that, many a times when we like someone,
It’s just “Natural” that we will want to show the very Best side of us.

Hoping indirectly / directly that we can get their attention.
We will be a little cautious, a little ‘nicer’, more careful with what we say in front of them.
So that we do not give a bad impression.
And maybe who knows, be together? *hee hee*

So, I often question myself,
How Natural are we really?
What happens when they find out about the real us?
And what about the not-so-Best side?
What about his / her not-so-Best side?
How should our approach be?

Food for thought.

P.S. Please don’t get me wrong and go ahead and make bad impressions everywhere OK!!??

Got Stabbed

2007-07-19T17:44:00.000+08:00

Tagged by *The gurl Mr.Celebrity Was With One Saturday*
haha =)

INSTRUCTION :
Bold the statements that are true to you.
Italicize the statements that you WISH are true.

Leave the fibs alone.
Then, stab 5 people to do the same test.

1) I miss somebody right now.
2) I do not watch tv these days.
3) I wear glasses or contact lenses.
4) I love to play video games.
5) I have tried marijuana.
6) I have been in a threesome.
7) I believe honesty is usually the best policy.
8) I have changed mentally over the last year.
9) I curse.
10) I am totally smart.
11) I’ve broken someone’s bones.
12) I am paranoid sometimes.
13) I would get plastic surgery if it were 100% safe, free of cost, and scar-free.
14) I need money right now.
15) I love sushi.
16) I talk really, really fast.
17) I have long hair.
18) I have lost money in Las Vegas.
19) I have at least one sibling.
20) I have worn fake hair/fingernails/eyelashes in the past.
21) I couldnt survive without Caller ID.
22) I like the way I look.
23) I am usually pessimistic.
24) I have a lot of mood swings.
25) I have a hidden talent.
26) I am always hyper.
27) I have a lot of friends.
28) I have pecked someone of the same sex.
29) I enjoy talking on the phone.
30) I practically live in sweatpants or PJ pants.
31) I love to shop.
32) Enjoy window shopping.
33) I would rather shop than eat.
34) I dont hate anyone.
35) I am a pretty good dancer.
36) I am completely embarrassed to be seen with my mother.
37) I have a cell phone.
38) I believe in God.
39) I am an adrenaline junkie.
40) I watch MTV on a daily basis.
41) I have passed out drunk in the past 6 months.
42) I have rejected someone before.
43) I want to have children in the future.
44) I have changed a diaper before.
45) I have called the cops on a friend before.
46) I am not allergic to anything.
47) I have a lot to learn.
48) I am shy around members with the opposite sexs.
49) I have made a move on a friends, significant other or crush in the past.
50) I have tried alcohol before.
51) I own the South Park movie.
52) I would die for my best friend.
53) I think that Pizza Hut has the best pizza.
54) I have used my sexuality to advance my career.
55) I love Michael Jackson, scandals and all.
56) Halloween is awesome because you get free candy.
57) I watch Spongebob Squarepants and I like it.
58) I am happy at this moment!
59) I âm obsessed with girls/guys.
60) I tie my shoelaces differently from anyone I've ever met.
61) I study for tests most of the time.
62) I am comfortable with who I am right now.
63) I have more than just my ears pierced.
64) I walk barefoot wherever I can.
65) I have jumped off a bridge.
66) I love sea turtles.
67) I spend ridiculous money on makeup.
68) Plan on achieving a major goaldream.
69) I am proficient in a musical instrument.
70) I hate office jobs.
71) I love sci-fi movies.
72) I think water rules.
73) I went college out of state.
74) I like sausages.
75) I love kisses.
76) I fall for the worst people.
77) I adore bright colours.
78) I cant live without black eyeliner.
79) I dont know why the hell I just did this stupid thing.
80) I usually like covers better than originals.
81) I can pick up things with my toes.
82) I can whistle.
83) I can move my tongue in waves, much like a snakes slither.
84) I have ridden/owned a horse.
85) I still have every journal I've written in.
86) I can stick to a diet.
87) I talk in my sleep.
88) I try to forget things by drowning them out with loads of distractions.
89) I have jazz in my blood.
90) Climbing trees is a brilliant past-time.
91) I wear a toe ring.
92) I can't stand at LEAST one person that I work with.
93) I am a caffeine junkie.
94) I cosplay or know what cosplaying is.
95) I have been to over 15 conventions.
96) I will collect anything, and the more nonsensical the better.
97) I am an artist.
98) I only clean my room when necessary.
99) I like a person of the same sex.
100) I love being happy.

I tag:
Hong Yi
Jin Yin
John cham
Chew King
Jocelyn Teh

My Bangkok Perspective

2007-07-13T13:26:00.000+08:00

Yes, took A LOT of pics!
Haha, NO…not because I was vain, but because, it was such a Beeeeeuutiful place =)
And I haven’t got everyone’s pics yet. But nvm la.
You get to see the story from MY perspective

Was actually contemplating whether I should really write about it, the fact that it was quite a long trip. And loads happening these before and after Bangkok.
(*will talk bout that later*)
Then, thought that if 5 years down the road and I wanna read back, it’s best that I write something down.
So, yeah. haha

So, what did 9 of us do in Bangkok for 6 days?
Well, the flight was good, Elisha did her shopping lists, while I slept!
Haha, was sitting next to her, didn’t care much wat others were doing. Haha.
Reached hotel, headed out to Silom Road for roadside food, which was awesome.
First night was awesome except for the taxi drivers who pissed me off abit, couldn’t understand where we wanted to go, but kept on insisting ok ok ok.
Jeez.

Next day,
Headed to the infamous floating market, a must go! Its really really beautiful. Really good experience, the best thing is that we had so many people, we charted a bus, and the whole trip cost each of us around 20 sumthing bucks. So that was good. Had the whole day doing all the tourist thingie.
Went on to Rose Garden for cultural show, elephant shows, and relaxed a lil.
Of course, massage! And the driver who was bringing us, kept on winking winking to me suggested on bringing me to leave the group and bring me to another ‘massage’ parlour.
Hahaha, I stuck with the team. =)
Don’t worry.

Yes for some of you who might know, I have never been massaged in my life before.
And yes, im ticklish.
I was making a lot of noise during the massage, had to practically put the pillow over my face.
But after a while ..well a long while…it was ok, it was really good.

Yes...she was scared!! hahah

Then some 'water' from the Dumbo's nostril dropped on her! haha

Still, she wanna take a nice pic! haha

Elisha too

Price of beauty..still trying to understand it.

Sunday? Chatuchak market!!
Hahaha, it wasn’t as hot as last time, short and flip flops during my whole trip there, made it soooo relaxing. Of course, we shopped. Duhhhh.
Separated the group, so Calvin and myself joined two gurls, Laura and Rachael.

Guys, gurls tell u a lot about themselves when they shop.
So guys, take the hint?
Gurls, guys tell u a lot about themselves when they shop with you, So gurls, take the hint?
Thus, people tell a lot about themselves when they shop.

Was in a bikini shop, the lady boss turned and asked,
“Are you a fashion designahhh?”
Apparently I was telling them which one looks better. Haha =

The rest of the trip was filled with shopping, walking shopping, walking, food, shopping walking, and MOVIES,!!
Yeah, caught Transformers in Bangkok, Siam Paragon Cinema, the movie was awesome, but the cinema made is spectacular.
RM14 bucks for transformers, kick ass sound system, kick ass cinema executive chairs, and kick ass lobbies, and kick assssss another lobby.
(yeh, we have go through two kick asses lobby for a movie)
Did I also mention about the kick-huge ass CCTV?? haha

Same, except for the Television of Thailand

Artist said i look like Rain wa.

Hahah, so kewt =)

Check out da price...dats RM 1.90!!

Dont ask..-_-!!

The guard's expression!! haha, priceless!! hahah

Spent the last night chilling in a jazz bar, they had a good band at the later end of the night.
Was just nice time chilling and listening to music.
Like jazz bars

Its not the first time I’ve traveled with a big group, did it with a maximum of 20 before. That was tiring; traveled with teenagers, so making sure they’re alright and accounted for took quite a bit of concentration, and responsibility.
We had a total of 9 of us this trip. Wasn’t that hard, considering the fact that everyone is at least in college.
But I guess it’s just me, making sure everything was alright, making sure everyone had everyone checked up.

Actually tried with Calvin to just let go and let the group make their decisions.
That was funny.

And the best thing after the trip was that I got sounded for letting the gurls go to a pasar malam by themselves. Most of us went to the movies, and 4 of the gurls wanted to head to Silom Road for walk shop, apparently the taxi fella got lost, and that freaked them out a bit.

So…err…
Dear parents, sorry?

Before Bangkok

2007-07-05T19:20:00.000+08:00

Aborted Operation Maison.
Hahah, yeh, was there, but after seeing so many boys coming out from that place, in their sweaty shirts and wet drenched hair.
I kid you not.
I didn’t wanna go in.

Loads of people is OK. Packed, it’s still OK.
But sweaty boys ?? thats a NO NO for me.
So, yeah, I aborted the operation.
So, headed to Loft and chilled with Carole instead.

Managed to catch a quick lunch with Phaik Wah before the flight to Bangkok.
And since I was going off, I thought it’ll be good to catch up before I head to Bangkok, and before she heads back to Melbourne.
Was good to hear from her again, talks bout friends, and being in a different environment, about Aussies, Koreans, and Malaysians.
Trully encouraged by your new found faith in HIM, the servanthood attitude and also your patience and dedication to the ones you love.
Your an encouragement =)

Do realize that one of her pupils are larger than the other ? Haha
The price of beauty.

Operation Maison

2007-06-28T17:47:00.000+08:00

A close friend of mine told me, whilst we were having Japanese last week.
haha

“Maybe its time you step out of the church scene a lil bit, and take a stroll outside and meet some other people.”

So, I will! =)

Decided to head down to Maison tonite.
Haven’t been down there, its always been Zouk.
All I hear is that its packed, stuffy, and a lot of 17 year old punks!
(I knw!! Haha)
Shall keep my objectivity. See how it goes, and come back with a report.
And hopefully a good time =)

Calling it Operation Maison.
Its like a trip report =)
Hoping to be impressed! Haha

And oh!! did I mention that I’m flying off to Bangkok after that?
Hee hee =)

Hair

2007-06-22T15:13:00.000+08:00

In my 23 years 8months of existence on mother earth, I have only paid twice for my haircut. Simply coz my mum is a hair stylist, owns a salon, and I had the luxury of getting free haircuts all these times. =)

Most of the time when I tell it to some of my girl friends, they will go.
“Waa, you sister syok laaaaaa”
Matter a fact, she memang syok! Treatment here, treatment there.

But you have no idea that we have to also become guinea pigs for some of my mum and aunt’s style experiments.
I Still remembered there was one time that my mum wanted to try out the Steve Urkel haircut.

*see below with caution*

I Duwan ohhh!! hahaha

Living in Kl now, I no longer have that luxury, but thank God for Airasia, mum get to travel here once in a while, and while she’s here, I get my hair done.
But she aint coming for the next few weeks.

By now, you should know that Im trying to tell you that I need a haircut already!
Hahaha =)

Still remembered the two times that I had to go around scouting for a hair salon and hair stylist, it was hard stuff, firstly it was expensive!
Blardee seventee ova dollars for a hair friggin cut! Wat da!!!
And since I never paid before, paying even 30 seems a lil banyak for me?
How do you gurls do it wan??

Secondly, dunno if they can do it or not wan.
Haha, I mean, with mum and aunt, you get to tell them what you want, and if it doesn’t turn out right, you have the luxury of scolding them! Haha, but its never gone wrong. Thank God. But takkan la I scold the hair sylist right?

Or maybe I can, since I paid! Wuahaha.

So, anyone got any ideas where and what to cut?

Say no to war!...... Pleaaaasee!!!

2007-06-15T15:44:00.000+08:00

Got an email from my colleague Kianwei today.

“THE Pentagon once considered the creation of a hormone weapon that would turn enemy soldiers into homosexuals who'd rather make love than war, according to US government documents.

The US air force's Wright Laboratory in Ohio had asked in 1994 for $US7.5 million to develop a bomb containing a powerful aphrodisiac chemical that would cause "homosexual behaviour" to affect discipline and morale in enemy units".

Dats why….say no to war, if not…dieeeee!!
Have a war-free-BLESSED week =)

God Bless peeps

p.s jadi, jangan bom orang lagi k? jika tak, nanti suatu hari you kena bom gay ohhh!! hahaha

Monica

2007-06-04T19:32:00.000+08:00

A tribute to Monica.
And since i promised *hahaha*

Me - "Hey Mon, u knw when gurls get molested, wat do u next?"
Mon - "Well some people keep it inside"
Mon - "Or you can embarrass them"
Me - "Ohkay...but what happends if a GUY get molested by a gurl?"
Mon - "U! MOLEST HER BACK!!"

Priceless.
HAHAHAHAHA

Happy Birthday Ma

2007-05-28T16:50:00.000+08:00

Happy Birtdhay Ma,
Love you.

Truth?

2007-05-17T13:27:00.000+08:00

Finished my 3 days in Penang, and back in KL.
The trip was not so bad, everything turned out allright.
Well, there was nothing much I could do to explain myself for being late for the flight except to… explain myself. haha

Managed to meet up with Zoey and Mei Sin, both of which with whom I had a great time talking.
It’s been encouraging to see that their challenging themselves, even with the struggles that they are going through.
A challenge a day, keeps some of us go all the away.

This is what I came across in this trip.
I knew that it takes wisdom to say the right things.
I realized also that that it takes wisdom to NOT say things at certain times.
Things you say at the wrong time might just be the worst thing to say at all. *repeated*

I was wondering,
Where did all the things we learnt when we were young went to?
What happened? What about truth?
What about telling the truth at any costs?
When did we learn to negotiate with truth?
When were we thought to compromise with it?
What is truth? Is part truth truth?
Is revealing part of the truth truth?
Is telling part and not the whole part truth?

WHAT IS TRUTH?
Interesting ey?

Edit*
And what if people dont want to hear the truth?
Ignorance is bliss some say,
But I'd console myself saying that you've got some more growing up to do.

Oh dear.

2007-05-14T11:25:00.000+08:00

Got onto a taxi at 5:45am.
Got tax uncle to drive me to KLIA.
Half way, the taxi broke down.
No credit on phone.
Waited for 20 minutes.
Taxi back on.
Reached KLIA, MAS counter said the counter is closed.
Looked at the watch, 30 minutes before departure.
MAS counter attendent said it closed 5 minutes ago.

So, my manager and director is on that flight already heading there, *hope my partner is not on that fligh, but seriously doubt so*
Called my director and explained.
Got a later flight.
And now, im sitting at Marche Cafe, waiting, Gan cheong-ing.
Lord, what to do ahh?

HAHAHAH.. Dang!

P.S Im heading to Penang till Wednesday by the way. Call me! Im definitelly free today!! Call me and talk to me also can!
hahaha

1981 & 2005

2007-05-08T09:49:00.000+08:00

Got this from a dear friend =)

Interesting Year 1981 ....
1. Prince Charles got married
2. Liverpool crowned soccer Champions of Europe
3. Australia lost the Ashes tournament.
4. Pope Died

Interesting Year 2005 ....
1. Prince Charles got married
2. Liverpool crowned soccer Champions of Europe
3. Australia lost the Ashes tournament
4. Pope Died

Lesson Learned:
The next time Charles gets married ... someone please warn the Pope

You Wouldn't Know

2007-05-07T17:11:00.000+08:00

Sometimes we make mistakes we couldn’t have known.
Insensitive and unwise remark comes out.
And you’ll realise that the right things to say at the wrong time = worst things to say EVER!

And when the one day comes you realize you did all the above at one go?!!
Yeah, tough day huh? It’s a bummer. *believe me*

How can you change something that you couldn’t have known?
And it seems too late for the change, coz they have already rested the case.

Well, at least the situation is SEEMS.
That’s a good thing =)

May the 4th Be With You!!

2007-05-04T15:02:00.000+08:00

Hee Hee
Have a BLESSED weekend peeps =)
God Bless

My Letter to My 12 year-old-self

2007-04-23T19:46:00.000+08:00

Got this idea from -Sarah- thought that its interesting, so here it is.

If you get a chance to write to yourself when you were 12 years old now, what would you write?

Dear Bernard,

You might be wondering if this is a joke, I know what you might think, but I also know that you would read on even though you thought that this indeed was a joke. How did I know that you might think? Coz I’m you, 12 years ahead.

See, I had this opportunity to write to you today, (which is 12 years ahead when your reading this), and just write bout anything.

Well, for your information, your name is still going to be Bernard Hiew Vun Poh, and yes, you’d get your IC pretty soon, and don’t worry bout the first IC, coz your gonna loose it. But don’t worry bout the second one as well, coz in another 3 years, the government is going to introduce a new ID which is going to be called the MY-card, NOW for that one. PLEASE get mum to cut this hair for you (attached below), coz I realised that more girls started saying that your handsome after getting this hair, instead of the usual cute!! -no thanks needed-

You would most probably be playing basketball very often and your dang proud that you are selected to play for the district. It’s cool. But remember not to loose your cool in the second game, coz during the second game, your team will play badly and you eventually began to scold your team, and that eventually took you off the team. Then again, if you still think they deserve it, scold them more. Since you’re going to be a state and national swimmer in 2 years time. So yeah. Haha

Oh, and about Marie, yes, I know bout Marie. Funny how no one does. Well, just to let you know that when she’s 24, she’s planning to get married. Yup. And mind you, your NOT in the position to marry anyone when your at this age. Don’t worry, your not poor, its just that your really not ready. Well, she wont be the love of your life. So, just be good friends with her =)
(psst. Wait till you get to high school and college and Work! Wohoooo)

You would realise in the next few years, a lot of girls are going to come to you, like Zhang Zing Fern who told you the other day that she likes you.
(Its amazing how gurls get all the guts to say that they like you, when you eventually only do so when your 24. HAHA, yeah, don’t worry, let it be natural bro, coz that’s really a record, and I am proud of you for saying it when you really meant it! Good one bro Haha.).

And mum is going to eventually say no to you now because your gonna have UPSR, she’s gonna ask you to study hard, and think bout it after UPSR. And when you reach high school, you ask her again, she said no, after UEC (yes, your going to Tshung Tsin for high school, there lots of pretty gurls, so yes, get to know as much as you can, DOESN’T MATTER if they are 5 years OLDER OR YOUNGER!! Ask you to KNOW ONLY OK??!!!), then after that, she’s gonna say after PMR, then SPM then College, eventually during college, you stopped asking, and she asked you how come you don’t have a girl friend. Hahaha. But it’s all good. Coz you don’t have one even when your 24! Haha. You might think that what kind of looser your going to turn into, but let me tell you, your not gay when your 24 ok? , go find the meaning from the dictionary, you made the right choices until this far bro, matter a fact, I’m pretty proud of your choices =)

Still find it funny yet amazing why you ask mum for permission. (You’d find out because you love Mum soooo much, so start showing!)

John Cham is going to be your close friend, but for you, you will begin to really interact with different kind of people, you will have lots of friends. But John Cham and Seth Boutin and Bryan Limus is going to be one of the several few Real Blood Brothers of yours. (Yeah, Limus calls our relationship that now) haha. And Tell OFF Seth Boutin when he does Marijuana at 15! Your going to save his life. As well as Tony and Yong Kam Fatt when your 17 ask them to buckle up all the time!!

Yes, so learn how to play chords, make Bj teach you guitar, which you will pick up really fast, but please write the song “FOREVER LOVE” before Lee Hom, coz he’s going to be big in the next 10 years! And oh your gonna be a MAN U FAN, Bet on Man U winning the treble at 1999, score is 2-1 extra time. Bet your mum’s house on it! Your gonna be rich!! Wohoo.
Oh did I mention that you get to have a chance to be a celebrity in Taiwan and also be MTV Asia Vj? Hahahah, exciting right?!!

I’m still finding and learning what and how is it to love someone.
I’m still finding how I can be a better person for my gf -to be, rather than demanding or hoping how they should be for me. How can I be a blessing to them as much as they are to me.

Even with all these uncertainties that you might face in the future, the same as I may face in mine. I realized that one thing stays the same forever, and I pray that you will hold on to this even if you ignore all those that I’ve written.
Is that you hold on to God and you continue to grow in Him. In all that you do, choose to honor His ways and continue to walk with Him. Then the rest will just come wan. =)

P.S, the 4 digit no for today is 8954. Yesterday’s one was 7041. Yup. Hee Hee

Yours truly,
Bernard Hiew

Told ya! keke

Decisions Decisions

2007-04-19T17:07:00.000+08:00

So, I did not get crucified. *big smile*
Hahaha.
Remember around a month ago, when I was challenging myself to do this
–click here-

Apparently, the challenge which was supposed to be one week is coming to one month. And I have to say that it’s been like a habit already. (And yes, the Man U ROMA game was exceptional,besides, technically I DID sleep before 12, and I just woke up at 2am to watch ma!)

But apart from that I get all conscious of time when it’s around 11ish. Haha
Well, just like the book said, it becomes less ‘forced’, and soon, it will become ‘effortless’ and later a habit.
Sure there were times that I wanted to just quit it and forgo the whole deal.
I mean what’s the big deal?
But when I looked at it, it also meant I had a choice to make.

I learnt that even for the things that we do not enjoy doing, but if we press on and keep on doing it, it will soon become a habit.
Note that I did not mention anything bout it being a GOOD or Bad one.
Scary right?
*Got your attention?*

It is undeniable that when a decision is made, and we practice our decision, it naturally becomes an act. When these actions continue over time, it soon becomes a occasional activity, and as it goes on, it soon becomes a habit. Not long, the habit becomes so effortless and with time, it continues to be a lifestyle, soon, it becomes your culture. And 5mg of influence comes along, Poop!! There you go, you get a revolution.

Asked a friend one why she’s smoking, for fun she said.
Weeks later, she told me she wanted to stop smoking,
After months, she told me that she can stop smoking
2 months later, she claimed that she could stop it whenever she wanted.
5 years later, she’s still smoking.
Asked her again why she’s smoking, she said she dunno.

Make a stand for the choices you make.
Ignorance has to stop.
Know Why Your doing What your doing.
Tip, things actually gets REALLY clear and REALLY easy once you start doing that, You might not agree, but maybe that’s coz you haven’t started doing it yet!

Hanging By That Moment

2007-04-11T17:10:00.000+08:00

I might get crucified for this, but it’s been hanging in my head for sometime already.
So here goes.

Allow me to say that I love churches.
I come from a great one =)
Forever grateful and will not trade it for another.

One of the best things they teach you is about LOVE.
To love the Lord, To love your neighbours, your enemies, as well as the love of the opposite gender. =)
Yes, there’s where we’re going today. Haha
*Pat yourself at the back and say, “Lucky ME…go on! (dun worry, nobody’s lookin)*

It’s great that churches are teaching what LOVE is all about, that true love waits,
teaches us to value our singleness and focus on developing ourselves, making ourselves better for the other person, teaches young people not to conform to society, but to have values, standards and not to be apologetic about it.

But isn’t it also funny that there are still so many single ladies in the church?
And when I say single, I mean, Ready-Ready-single.
Does the church teach us how to go and get the guy, or get the gurl?
I mean seriously, its great that we focus on developing ourselves, and live great standards, but after ALL that is done and the time is ‘right’…what happens?

And funny how the church preaches so passionately bout what true love is and to guard our hearts, but seems to be very quiet about the issues of “what happens next”.
Are we really being relevant?
Coz the last time I checked, there isn’t any ALPHA classes for “How to date”

Go figure and lets discuss =)
Told ya I might get crucified. haaha

Ohhhhhhhh

2007-04-09T17:43:00.000+08:00

This kinda reminded me of my "PORN" experience. HAHA

Happy Birthday Sam

2007-04-04T17:34:00.000+08:00

NAH...one post for you! haha

" Its not how good we start the race that matters, its how well we end it that counts. End it well."

Happy Birthday Sam
Have a BLESSED one =)
God Bless

90:10 ?

2007-03-28T11:14:00.000+08:00

Was reading a chapter of Habitudes by Tim Elmore the other day.
(YES! I CAN read!!)
The chapter was about Character, and that we ought to be made of 90% character and 10% skills.
The book was explaining that it might be the 10% of skills that gets us the job, but it’s the rest of the 90% that keeps us there.

Well, as much as I beg to differ (coz I do not think that the ratio works very well with me).But that’s another story. There was challenge at the end of the chapter where we’re suppose to think of something we dislike doing; being house chores, tidying up the room, iron clothes, help mum cook all that. And choose to actively do it for one week.
It says that percentage of it being cultivated as a habit is really high.
I thought I’d give it a shot, and see how it goes.

So I began thinking, what is it a dislike doing.
I can’t really think of any.
Until last night.

So here it is.
I would go to bed before 12am on weekdays. (Coz weekends happening ma..haha)

Oh, Im suppose to have accountability, and have ppl checking up on me.
I thought blogging bout this would really make me eat my words.
So yup, I give you all permission to keep me on check.
You bug me with sms, call me. Come up to me and ask me.
For some of you who would wanna discuss the ordeal can just gimme a call, or just ask me point blank.
This offer is only for ONLY 1 week OK!!??
But PLEASE dont call me in the middle of the night jusssst to check ahhh.

Lets see how it goes.
Any takers that I cant do it?

What if Adam Never Took The Bite?!!

2007-03-23T16:00:00.000+08:00

Most of you know that I when I on my MSN during work, I rarely chat.
When I do, it either means that I’m really free, or Im really busy, and taking time out to let off some steam.

And the following was not one of those days when I’m really free.
Bj got me on one of the worse days.

******
Bj-
Wsup bro, you doing good?

Me-
Hey…why the hell did Adam took the bite? Imagine if he never did take the bite?

Bj-
Hahaha

Me-
I mean, seriously. If Adam never took the bite, we wouldn’t be working to keep ourselves from surviving.

Bj-
Right. Blame it on Adam.

Me-
Dumb*ss!!

******

Hahaha, but seriously. If Adam never took the bite. We guys wouldn’t have to work like nuts just to get paid nuts and to fill our stomach!
We will be naked running around in the garden, sitting on Simba the lion, and play with Fiffy the dolphin, and catch a bit of horror show watching our clothed wives sit and SCREAM in labour. (coz Eve ate)
I mean, our wives wouldn’t have to work, coz we as man of the house, can provide without working. So, they just have to ask from us. Isnt that easy?
ARRGGGHHH!!

Nevermind.. He shouldn’t have taken the bite!
Dumb*ss!!

HAHAHAH.
p.s. Yeah, im blowing off steam now! haha
Dunt worry, work does this to you once in a while. You end up whining and blaming other ppl.

And now for the top stories of today..

2007-03-15T18:18:00.000+08:00

This one made me laughed so long today!!
The expression on his face..PRICELESS.
HSBC SHOULD really use this pic to do thier commercial!
Enjoy

Looking To the Weekend

2007-03-09T19:05:00.000+08:00

Was hosting Juwita Suwito’s For Real Album launch the other day.
Was quite a good one.
The gurl can really sing! I mean she can really sing!

Met up with Xandria Ooi, the UVJ winner, chatted after the event.
Check her out here!
Apparently was there for the MTV finals. Yeh.
Like her new bobcut, she looks very sexy in it.

Jaclyn Victor was there as well.
Friendly, down to earth, and very marketing marketing.
Oh well, welcome to the industry 

God, you have always been faithful, always there.
Always. =)

A notty gurl came to my house and took a pic of my Nude pic!

I've Been Thinking

2007-03-06T15:12:00.000+08:00

What makes a man a man?
When he means the things he say?
When he takes responsibility and own up?
When he stands for what is right?

But what happens what is right isn’t so straight forward as it seems?
What if making any choice will have a great opportunity cost to pay?
And what if that choice you make is against the person who loves you, and you in return, the most?
What if she doesn’t let you make any?

It’s been a pretty dreadful 2 weeks.
Mum doesn’t wanna let go.
Even after all the information gathered, talked to all the people she talked to.
Still she doesn’t wanna let go.
Am I to obey?
But I thought its all about honouring?

“What is it that I want?” doesn’t seem to be a case at all.
“That’s all I want you to do Bernard” she said.

And I just couldn’t understand why is it so hard to let her know that I really don’t like this at all?
Is it really that hard?

What makes a man a man?

CNY 07

2007-03-01T13:01:00.000+08:00

Ellows got back to KL already. Yup :)
Work started already.
And im sinking :(

It was a short trip for me this time round heading back to KK.
Managed to spend a lot of time with my Grandma, Mum, and family.
Didnt go round catching up with a lot of ppl, considering the fact that i was only in KK for 6 days.

Yup, all the cousins have really grown. most of them are all taller than me.
Good for them. Then again, have always been really comfortable with my height.
hahaha.

There's a lot in my mind right now, a lot to think about.
Sometimes closed eyes and think black doesnt work either :)
Gimme some time ya.

Valentines Present

2007-02-14T14:21:00.000+08:00

Its Valentines today, one of the time of the year when we give gifts to people we love.
And since I Love all of you. Share something that I’ve learnt.

Its funny when we rarely compliment, acknowledge and let others know that we appreciate them in our daily lives, especially to our loved ones. Instead, we fill most of our time today with gossips, rumours, criticism, complaints and accusations.

Let them know.

Uncle’s dad passed away recently, both my sister and myself decided to go over and pay our respect and also be there for the family. And as I was sitting there, just thinking bout it all, and working it through my mind, thinking of how people who attended would feel, how myself, aspiring to be a financial planner is going to be relevant in situation like these..

I realized that when the time when I actually leave this place, besides the fact that I want to leave a good name, a good life, and let my loved ones know that I love them. I want my leaving to not be a burden to all.
I was thinking bout the medical fees cost incurred before that, the cost incurred to do the whole procedure of the ceremony, from the memorial park, to the casket, to the drinks, to the transportation. But most of all, for my family’s financial well being not to be jeopardized, that, they will only have to deal with the loss of the parent / spouse and not have to worry bout anything else.

And then the thought came like a on-charging train. What happens if you leave before you have a family, a wife? What if tomorrow is your time?

And when I thought bout these things, besides spiritual salvation, I realised the importance for an individual’s responsibility to plan for their personal finance. And personally, I believe the earlier you plan, the earlier you get a head-start and the lease time you give yourself to fail. – Inspirational.. I knw :)

Really take your time to digest this post, let me know what you think?
Happy Valentines to you. Hugs

Tribute To A Champion!!

2007-02-06T18:29:00.000+08:00

A Tribute To one of my good friend! Your an inspiration, Champion V!!

When guys cry, Sissy or Sexy?

2007-01-25T12:14:00.000+08:00

Just a disclaimer, before you read on.
If the following speaks to you one way or another, its definitely not my fault!
Its most probably and definitely your fault.
Yeah, go and cry.

Have a lot of girl friends who tell me story of their exes, their story of their boyfriends, story of their dads, their uncles, their brothers.
And I asked them how often to these guys cry, AND the common answer I get is,
“After they realised that they dump u mistakenly”

They say that there is this period after you guys break-off, and don’t talk much, after several weeks, the sms will come back, the calls, will come and say they miss you.
*at this point, its either the gurl thinks the dude’s a jerk, ask him to wobble off, or they come into this stage I called the “Sarm luen” stage and they get back together*
( We will talk bout this in another post)

Now, the next question is when they cry, do they go
“ *sob* *sob*”

Or do they go
“ DIIIIMMMM GGAAAAAAIIIII”

You might wonder.

And surprisingly most guys in this (Mistake dumping phase), will do nutsy things, they would usually go with the second mode of crying.
They will usually do this for …erm….lets see… 5 minutes (heard one did it for 6!! *clap clap*)
5 minutes average because, its tiring…it really is wan.. you try la! They need a break, to breath, drink water, go into the car, blow the air con, adjust their make-up, and hair and toilet break maa !! arhhh and then back to position and continue.
( We can talk bout 21st century Malaysian Dudes Fashion Sense another post as well)

This will also happen for 3 / 4 sets. (Depending on how Bad his mistake was, or how desperate he is)
Then hoh, after that, they will go into the *sob sob* mode, they call you and suddenly they will sound really steady. And then , they’d go.

“Hey baby, haven’t sleep ahh, how are you? What are you doing? Hrmmm”….
And then…
“I…M..M…MISSSSssss youuuu ooooohhhhhhhhhh ….. hurrr hurrr huhrrrrrrr.. DIIIMMM GAAIIII , WO AIII NII WOOOOOO”
*translation = I miss u, *sob* x 3, Why? , I love you woo* Don’t ask me who’s woo!!!

Sometimes it will go on back to the fisrt “DIMMMMM GGAAAIII” stage.
So..Yeahlo.
That’s what they usually do wan.
Haha

Now, I’m not saying that these guys are all losers, I’ve heard of cases which really did work, and they are really happy now. And its good for them.
This entry is just to prepare you la, just in case it does happen to ur friends. *wink wink*
NOOO La, won’t happen to u wan la!

Now, im just talking bout crying, some nutso, will do crazy things like jump down from 2nd floor wan ohkay. They tell you that they will commit suicide or things like that.
When that really happens, may I warn you to really let somebody else know.
DON’T GO TO HIM/HER alone ahh.
Call their parents or sumthing.
But if you’ve made up ur mind, and he’s still crying outside ur house, call the cops, or release the dogs la.
And shut off ur handphone.

Coz someone tried that when I was in college, yeah, tried committing suicide, the police and ambulance had to come, and another 1 jumped! Yeah from 1st floor . STEWPIT!
I was thinking, soo drama, if really jump, why not jump 4 th floor la!
Ishhh, want attention only! Yeah the dude ended up in the wheel chair, they got back together, and she ended up pushing her around in college.
Oh well. At least im not pushing him.
Hahaha

But of course, that’s just the relationship crying, and a lil exaggerated. haha
The first time I cried, other than when I was caned by my mum. (yeah, I used to get that a lot, but I still LOVE her) was when my Dad was disappointed in me.
No, he didn’t scold me, but when I realised that I disappointed my Dad, and when was talking to me, tears flowed.
The first time watching a movie crying was with my dad as well, BRAVEHEART (oh u should watch that)
Basically I cry when my dad is around! -_-!!
Hahahahah

Hahah, personally I think it shows the more humane side of a man when he shed a tear.
And that’s sexy. But cannot wat also cry la, see the flower cry, see the dog so cute..cry! gimme a break!
But to kneel down in front of her house, and cry cry cryyyyyyy…
Now thats just stewpit!

Leave a comment. haha

2006 and 2007

2007-01-19T15:47:00.000+08:00

“We all start from growing up as a child being taken care by our parents, and there will come a day when we grow up as parents and the roles change when we begin to take care of them.”

This time, going back to KK was like the same a challenging trip. Hahaha
After living with my mum over the past 23 years, you and I would have thought that I’ve learnt how to handle her already.
Hahah, But nothing prepared me for what I encountered.

I remembered my mother as a very strict, very tidy person. Always teaching and reminding…yes as well as lecturing me on responsibility, about tidiness and cleanliness.
And it shocked me this time when I went back, the house was pretty messy, the car was super dirty. Hahah, and as I began to question mum bout it, she said she was always tired, and didn’t have time to do it.

Realised that she has been using all of her energy on work, spending her hours in the salon, and when she comes back home, she will just eat, bathe, and go to bed.
I realised mum didn’t want to spend so much of her time alone and free. She doesn’t know what to do with it now that both Belinda and myself are no more in the house.
She was using work to avoid being lonely.

And as I began to talk to mum, I realised that I began to sound like someone I used to know very well. My mum. Haha ironic ey? Don’t believe me, try and take a step back and really think about it. Haha. You might find out that we’re very much in the same situation. Hahaha

Going back this time has been a slow, relax time of bonding, observing, relaxing, reflecting time for me. Spent a lot of time thinking out wat has happened and wat is 2007 going to be for me. As till today, we’re still in the midst of praying and thinking through.
Many times I get to frustrated thinking bout these things. That I just wanna shut it up, and don’t think bout it. But after a few days, and as you begin to pick up the pieces and wanting to pile it to the picture we want.. and it all repeats itself again!!!
Lord, I need some help here!!

2006 has been a really challenging year, met a lot of great personalities, some not so great, but it was awesome to have great friends around. Days and Dinners were never the same. SO, I’m looking forward to 2007 with arms wide open!
Lets walk this journey together!
Blessed new year.

Tomorrow SIBKL is launching RESONATE service.
Yup, it’s a Exist district service. The church is going to hold one RESONATE service every two months. It’s a special service by the young, specially for ages round the Young Adults, the College Zone and High school, and anyone who wanna join.
Yup, so its generally LOUDER!! Hahaha

Come join us at SIBkl at 5pm!!
Blessed weekend ya’al!

Meet Vincent, He just won "Sexiest dude" title in Setapak region! A True Champion! Watch out, he's definitely going somewhere!

Hehe

2007-01-10T09:20:00.000+08:00

Back in KL

2007-01-08T13:45:00.001+08:00

Hey people.
Just got back to KL after two weeks of good rest.
Went back to KK and this time round, didn’t do as much as I did last year.
Think age is catching up. Haha

Let see, Shaelin was down in KK, and since Joni was busy with DBD, I had to babysit her instead.Speaking of DBD so that took one week away!Went up to Tip of Borneo in Kudat, Tanjong Aru Beach, Manukan Island with the DBD crew, went up to Kundasang look see, look see, and also went white water rafting!! Haha, its been 10 years since I last did it. And it was still fun! Hahah
Shealin was screaming all the way! Hahah funny.

After Shealin left, had time for mum, for close friends, myself and also for the family.
Decided before going back this time around to go and take my scuba diving lessons.
And walla. I got it done! Haha.
Yeah, just like that. Note, its much easier when ur earning ur own money, and doing things you wanna do all these while, makes me so….nice! haha
Coz when ur younger, you just cant ask ur parents to pay for the lessons, its pretty pricey.
Or maybe coz its me, I dunno, I never for anything when I was young, especially from my mum. I remembered that when mum forgotten to give me the weekly allowance, I’d just take my savings and I use them there.(Well, except for circumstance such as paying school fees and bills). Dunno. Weird.

One of the things I felt different going back to KK this time is the driving in KK. I can’t stand the driving in KK. There were several instances and this particular time when I was on the road and there was this dude, driving at 40km/hr, and he was cruising on the right lane.I highlighted the dude, but instead of moving aside, to let us through, he just continued crusing at 40km/hr.
I was furios!! AND THERE were no car on the left lane. Until the motorbike over took him from the left lane. I continued highlighting him and eventually honking him, he remained.
After 5km, he finally moved to the left lane!
CRAZEEE!!

Christmas was fine, went around carolling, had turkeys.
Family dinners were sweet. Spent a lot of time talking with grandma, and taking care of Jonas. Ryan has really grown but spoilt as usual. But still sweet! Haha

Met up with Ji Henn, Jeevs, Cindy, and high school mates, as well as primary school mates. Catching up. I love catching up.
Haha. Will be goin back for Chinese new year! Haha so we shall see!

Pics people!

hehe, meet Jonas, my cousin.

Im Back and Goin

2006-12-08T19:22:00.000+08:00

Yeh, sorry for the long absence, was away for my study break.
Yeah, im working and studying at the mo, and its not the smartest thing to do.
My advise, DONT DO IT! (i mean, work and study at the same time)...
Take ur time, finish your study, then work. Coz you will end up working for the rest of ur life anyway.

And oh, dont work/study you dont enjoy. You'll just be wasting ur time.
Yup. more bout that, in January. (If ur wondering why January?...haha...coz i said so) haha

As most of you might have known Hillsongs United came to Malaysia, and our church hosted them. Was Mcing the concert with Ps. Lindy. There was really really a lot of ppl, I have never seen so many young people packed into a sanctuary to worship GOD that craze before.
But it was awesome, the team had fun organizing, and making sure everything was allrite. Thanks to COUZ! 1500 young people! Woohoo!! Praise God!

Had a surprise bday party for Carole the other night. Nadya called and was asking how can we do it for her. Then decided to really suprise her to the max.
MAMAK.
So, told Nadya to tell Carole that Jeevs is asking us out for yamcha at mamak, and then got Nad to call all of Carole's classmates to come at 12pm.
Hard part at that night was, Jeevs couldnt make it last minute, coz he needed to fly early next day, and its up to me and Nad, it wasnt hard..UNTIL 11.55pm, when she kept on turning her head to watch MTV.
haha, we needed her to sit in that specific directions, so that she doesnt see the others coming from her behind with the cake.
At last, Nad and myself, managed to do so...and we sang her a Happy Burfday!
Yup she was dang suprised
hahah, HAPPY BLATED 22 gurl.

The cell will be heading to Penang tonight. And yes, im excited bout it!!
Getting fat, and laze around.
wohoooo!! Havent done that for quite some time alrdy.

Room for Rent

2006-11-28T18:05:00.000+08:00

Yup, Ive got a Master Bedroom for rent, in Kelana Putri Condo.
RM 500/ mth including water and electricity.
The place is clean, nice, and tidy.
yup, very nice place! haha

If you or any of ur friends are interested, please shoot me a comment below, or mail me at bnardhiew@gmail.com

The past two weeks passed in a flash, cell went ice skating for the first time. Fell twice, and finally, i cant skate. Yup, never ice skate, never roller bladed my entire life. *I knw, some of you might be thinking what did i do when i was a kid? haha, matter a fact, i spent so much time in the pool, i didnt do anything else, besides eating, sleeping, and pretending to be listening to class, and pretending to be concentrating on listening in class, as well as pretending ....
Watched Happy Feet and Bond, Happy Feet was really awesome, and spent nights crying over Korean shows.
haha.

Will be taking leave for a week from work.
Yes, i need it.

I've Got Tagged!!

2006-11-16T11:12:00.000+08:00

Got tagged. So...here goes haah

Do you have any friends of the opposite sex : Duhhhhh yeahhhhh.

Are you in a relationship : Nup.

Who was the last person you dated : No one

What is the best quality : God Fearing.

Have you ever been cheated on : No (or maybe I don’t care..ORR maybe I still dunno! haha).

Have you ever cheated on someone : Err.. nup.

When was your first serious relationship : Not yet, still yet to be decided. Shaelin says I should start soon wahhh. Im getting old she says. haha

Who with : Hahaha. Nice try.

Have you ever had friends with benefits : I have no idea wat dis means, anyone got any idea?

Do you have a crush : hahaha, no crushes anymore, its more of appreciation and admiration now.

Do you dream about your crush : Again, no crushes, but as for those I admire or appreciate? Haha, yeah.

Is there someone you want to kiss : Err.. now you got me thinking. haha.

Have you ever kept a super secret : Yes, I can fly and I wear weird blue costume yup and a cape. Did I mention bout red underwear and tight spandex blue suit? And gelled hair? Yes, people always mistaken me for a bird!!?? (I knw? I blue bird?! ….SIGH)

Have you ever done something you regret : Yes I have. But we learn from those as well.

Have you ever hurt someone : Yes…. But its for their good! Hahahaha! NO LA! But yes, I have.

Has someone ever hurt you: Yes.They say i deserve it waaa.. haha

Do you care about money : Yup I do.

Were you ever with someone completely opposite of you : Hahaha, no. For those who knw me will think that having another Bernard being with Bernard will be quite crazee.

Do you miss someone : My Mum, my grandma, lil Ryan and yeh etc.keke

What's the first thing you notice about the opposite sex : Id say the way they carry themselves. I’m quite allergic to ppl who either talk too loud or too quiet.

Have you ever had a crush on someone that was in a relationship : Err.. yup. Was encouraged to do a "steal" ...BUT didnt at the end haha.

Have you ever kissed a stranger : Nup.

What would be your perfect date : Being with someone who knows the real me, sitting, talking, do normal stuff.

Do you prefer holding hands or making out : hahah, can I have both!? Haha, no la..errr..have to choose ahh.. id say holding hands.

What's the best physical attribute : I’d say the eyes, and smile.

Lost someone : If you Lost someone, then its maybe coz you weren’t really looking closely enough.

How do you feel about long distance relationships : Personally, id say it can work, but id rather not.

Do you want them to be smart : Yup, I wouldn’t want a dumb one, do you? DUHHHHH.

Last one of the opposite sex you talked to : Junee

How many people have you dated since January : None.

Do you care if they share your religion : Yup. Id think that when you don’t share the same, there’s a lot of unnecessary ordeals and things that needs discussion and a lot of problems will occur. And when marriage is on the way, and family, that’s when it really bloats. Don’t wanna compromise this.

Have you ever said I love you and meant it : Yes. To my Mum and Grandma.

Do you believe in love at first sight : Hahah used to when I was 12. But I think that only happened for one day. Haha.

Do you think internet relationships can really work : Hahaha, I think Internet is a great tool to get to knw more ppl. But at the end of the day, just using Internet alone to sustain the relationship?? , Id say go marry the monitor!

When was the last time you slow danced : Hahah, flew over to KL from KK to attend a college ball. Had no partner, one of the girls invited for a dance. So, I did. Haha, it was kinda weird. Coz i cant dance for nuts.

Does anyone have a crush on you : I think so. Was in church one day, after service when everybody is getting to the lift and moving down, one dude shouted, “Hey Bernard, You’re my fan!! …I mean, I’m Your fan!!!”
-_- !!

Do you want to get married? : Yup!

Have you ever stalked someone: Nope.

Has someone ever stalked you : Don think so… I dunno wo.

Have you ever done the love calculator : Nup.

Would you ever kiss someone in front of your parents : Yes. I’VE GOTTA DO IT after saying “I DO” right??

Have you ever skinny dipped with the opposite sex : Nup.

Have you ever slept in the same bed as the opposite sex : Yes.

Have you ever had sex : Nup

Do you bite when you kiss : Err no, I dun think so. Kiss is Kiss Bite is Bite.

Would you date someone from another state : Hahah, yeah.

Would you date someone older than you : Preferaby no. Its for her own good. (If you really wanna knw ask me next time when you see me! haha) But then if Song Hye Gyo insists, then okla...haihhh..wat to do?

Would you be with someone with glasses : Yeah. But its gotta be cool glasses! HAHA

Have you kissed someone in a restaurant : Yup. All my baby cousins!

Do you care if they drink : Of Course! dunt want her to be kissing the waiter do I? haha

Do you care if they smoke : Yes I do care. Dun like them to smoke at all. Killing yourself is a NO-No, Killing me together?! FORGET IT!

Have you ever been called a tease : Nup. Not that I'm aware of

Have you ever cried over someone who you were just "talking" with> : No. Dunno wat you mean, but No.

Have you ever liked someone from a different country : Yup, Song Hye Gyo and Jessica Alba.

Would you play with their hair : I like playing with them better. But hair? Dunno ahh..never tried. Do you gurls like ur guy to play with ur hair really?? (let me knw *click on comment and start typin) Coz I dun like ppl playing with my hair, but if its someone special, then its alright.

Would you do anything for the person you like: No. Not anything.

Do you miss a past relationship : Nup, never had one. And Im damn proud of it.

What's really important to have in a relationship : God, Compatibility and Communication.

Do you like getting massages : Yup

Would you date someone that doubled popped their collars : Ku tak paham la!

Do you like to cuddle : Yeshhhh!

Who do you tag? : Yup! You! Yes, the one reading and contemplating on X ing this blog! Haha, leave a message, gimme ur blog add, and I'll go check out ur answers. hahaha

Alice Wong

2006-11-07T15:46:00.000+08:00

Had one of the worst weekends ever. Not really worst, but just physically drained.
Had to skip cell on Friday and worked till 12, and continued all the way till Sunday.
Decided to rush and cramp it all in two days coz MUM flew in on Saturday, and I wanna spend some time with her before she heads on to JAPAN for her hair show.
For ONE WEEK!

It was great to see Mum again, and as I began to talk with her, and ask her how are things with her, as I listen to her share bout how it is being over in KK alone, about some of her view of things, people, or even just plain procrastination of this and that. I realised that Mum is just great! And GOD is even greater.
Hahah.

Single mother, and the story of how she managed to cope with Bernard Hiew over the past 23 years. Haha.
Those of you who knew me since I was a kid, haha, will know wat im talking bout.
*Lets just say that im not the nicest kid around the block. *
Haha. But God was always there, always there to give her strength to persevere, to hold on, always trusting God, always seeking His Face, always believing, always having faith.

And throughout all these years, the son saw what the mother did, and he learnt.
Thanks mum. Thank you Lord.

On a lighter note,

Mum-
“Bernard, grandma said she wants to go Japan next year..”
Bernard-
“Ahh, that’s good…*intentionally keep quiet*”
Mum-
“*Not giving up*, I told grandma that Bernard is saving to bring you to go.”

See what I mean?
Haha, not that I dunt wanna go Japan, its just to expensive now la, and if I wanna go holiday and enjoy, gotta really go and spend all I want la, if go spend lil bit here and lil bit there…haihhh. I’d rather wait another time, when I have more of the greens.
So Hong Kong, Taiwan or China is a better choice at this moment.

Then again, who knows.haha

p.s. Thanks Rachael for accompanying me all the way up to Nilai to pick up Belinda, and also my mum. Appreciate it.

Blessed Hols Peeps

2006-10-20T18:06:00.000+08:00

Scenario: Two of my friends defending their preference (Boxers vs Normal Undies)

A-
“Why do you wanna wear undies? You should try boxers dude”
B- “Huh?! Then why do you have to wear boxers? You should wear undies!”
A-
“ Undies are not good for you! It prevents the growth of ur brother la wei! Bodoh!!!
Be a man la! Wear Boxers la!!”
B-
“BODOH!!, when you have your B*lls reaching the floor later, YOU tell me WHOS DA MAN!!!”

HAHAHAH

To all of you, and some of you who are not in Malaysia, (it’s the Hari Raya and Deepavali public Holiday stretch) all the way till next Thursday.
So, that means….. 5 days holiday!!
Wuahahahaha!!!!

Blessed Holidays

Bang!

2006-10-16T20:24:00.000+08:00

Got into a car accident yesterday,
Was raining real hard, and was coming back from college.
Braked. But the car just went straight!
BANG!

Yup. Im alrite, nothing much, but just financially crippled now!
Ah jut msged from taiwan, and the first thing he asked was
"HAHH!!? your face how? is ur face injured?"
hahahahah!! memang artist yang sejati, hanya pentingkan muka! haha

On a brighter note, was one of the mornings like any other, as I was waiting for the lift to arrive I noticed a gurl looking at me.
After 20 seconds, she was still looking.
The lift came, all of us went in.
Pressed our floors. She stopped looking.

Then she turned around!
“Excuse me, are you SUPERMAN B?” she asked. (YES, she was the ONLY one speaking)
The whole lift looked at me!!
-_-!!

That was it. The secret was out! Hahaha

What is this Adrian?

2006-10-11T09:17:00.000+08:00

Was having dinner in a friend’s place, then her 4 year-old lil brother came to the table and started chatting with me. So, I joined him in the conversation, which turned out to be a really entertaining one.

We chatted for about 10 minutes, when I started to ask him, what is this and what is that as i began pointing, and he began naming them for me.
I was impressed from the moment he initiated the conversation, then as I went on pointing, he began to name them. Until, I pointed at the orange coloured dish on the table.

“What is this Adrian?” I asked
“(Think for a second…or maybe two second) … PAWN” , he hesitated and replied.
“No, that’s not a pawn, try again, you were close.” I encouraged
“(Looked puzzled) … a pawn...” he answered and looked at me, waiting for me to agree.
“No Adrian, that’s not a pawn, it’s PORN”
“PORN” he followed.

It was too late; I just introduced a dish called porn to a four year old kid!
It was actually prawn. Slipped my mouth.
My bad.

Nail Puller

2006-09-25T14:50:00.000+08:00

It’s been several weeks from the last one, and yes, a busy stretch as well.
Loads of things happened, and to tell you all of em? haha, I’m just too lazy for that. Haha
But here’s one that I learnt a lot and really close to my heart.

I met up with a good friend of mine for dinner, as usual, we started off chatting, (*Chup* I LOVE these dinners where you just sit down with great company and start chatting. *End Chup*) and doing this with this friend of mine has always been a blessing and enjoyable. Not merely because I get to talk, but rather it’s when I get to train myself to listen, and that’s when we really get to know them. The REAL them :) (Of course, this comes with practice *uiseeehhh*)

As we began to talk, catching up with what’s happening to each of our lives, my friend began to open up, people my friend met along the way, happiness, joy, funny stuff, and eventually disappointments and things done. And as my friend went on, tears started to fill my friend’s eyes. My friend stopped talking.
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There was a story of the nail puller.
It was Stephen’s birthday, and Stephen's dad instead of a conventional party where everybody comes with boxes of gifts, he wanted to impart wisdom.
He decided to invite all the fathers to come with their sons to the party with a special gift-a tool that served them in their line of work.
After all has given theirs, a father who was a professional home builder handed Stephen a small box, a tool box. Inside that toolbox, Stephen found a nail puller.

The father began to tell the story of how once, while in the middle of building a wall, he discovered that it was crooked. Instead of halting the construction and undoing a little work to fix the wall, he decided to proceed, hoping that the problem would go away as he continued to build. However, the problem only worsened. Eventually with a great loss of materials and time, he had to tear down the nearly completed wall and totally rebuild it.

“Stephen”, the father said, “times will come in life when you realize that you’ve made a mistake. And at that moment, you have 2 choices, to swallow your pride, “pull a few nails” or you can foolishly continue your course, hoping the problem will go away. Most of the time, the problem will only get worse, I’m giving you this tool to remind you this principle. When you realize that you’ve made a mistake, the best thing you can do is tear down that wall and start over.”
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I prayed for my friend that night before we parted. My friend was caught off-guarded. But allowed me to :)
So we did. (Thank you)

To my dear friend, and to some of you, whatever situation you may be in, here is a nail puller! :)
It’s time to start over, but this time let HIM be in your blueprint. Coz at the end of the day, He LOVES you, and He will NEVER leave you nor forsake you. His plans are always to BLESS YOU and to PROSPER YOU!
..in other words NOTHING TO LOOSE!
Haha

God Bless

Post E06 syndrome?

2006-09-07T19:06:00.000+08:00

E06 is over, is it?
Well the event is over, but as for the things that HE showed me, its just the beginning of another journey.

If there was one word to describe it would be excellent.
Didn’t realize that I was sooo involved in this conference until a few days before it when a couple of us were sitting down talking bout it. And the amount of debriefing needed! Haha, from workshop, to the band, to MC and to idol judge! Whouw.
Haha, but praise God, I wasn’t strained at all.
Was truly blessed by HIM, even though the team and myself didn’t really get to sit down to listen to the whole word, there was a spirit so strong. Of excellence in all that we do.

Well, here are some of the things that I gathered, and will work for the rest of the year:

(1) Kindness- Im not the kindest dude on earth. Hahaha, neither am I the meanest. But I hear HIM challenging me to be kinder to people. Like you, yourself : )

(2) Gentle – Again, im not the most gentle dude around. Id wanna be more gental, VERBALLY! *ahem*

And I’d keep the rest to myself! Haha

NOTE: DISCLAIMER- In case that you have not received the treatment that you’ve been expecting?...get used to it and work on your patience, coz GOD is not done with me yet!

God Bless keke

Here are some pics. You just want pics don’t you? Tell you what, if you guys are nice, maybe id put in more in the next post? Waddaya say?

Things about people

2006-09-01T16:52:00.000+08:00

"People will forget what you said, people will forget
what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel."

Have a Blessed weekend everybody!

IMPACT Concert

2006-08-21T14:19:00.000+08:00

E06 IMPACT Concert
Date :25th,26th August 2006
Time :7pm
Venue:SIB(KL) Sanctuary
5h Floor Bangunan Lim Chai Yin
No 7 Section 16/11 Jalan Damansara
46350 Petaling Jaya

Tel : 603-7957 2701
Weblink : www.e06.com.my

COME!! ADMISSION IS FREE!

What say you ?

2006-08-10T11:25:00.000+08:00

Contentment is not when we get the things we hoped for, instead, it’s when we are thankful for what we already been blessed with.

Are you contented?

This made my day

2006-07-26T12:59:00.000+08:00

Hope it made yours too!
God Bless

What they say, What I say

2006-07-20T15:57:00.000+08:00

Someone once told me that if I take too long a time I might just miss out and loose my opportunity.
Ohkay ohkay maybe not just someone…
Maybe a lot of some ONES. Haha

They say I loose out a lot, and always asked me not to let them make the first move.

Im not too much of a ‘gurl take the 1st move kinda guy, but..
I believe however that with patience, it makes it all the more precious.
all the more cherished, and all the more assuring. (at least he’s giving serious thought bout it)
Don’t you think so?

Good Pirates, Bad Pirates

2006-07-18T13:39:00.000+08:00

Watched Pirates of the Carribean the other day. I didn’t really enjoyed the show.
No doubt there was a lot of stuff going on, the story was definitely better than the 1st one. But I just didn’t ENJOYED the movie. Hrmm…
Except of course for the excellent acting of Johnny Depp.

But I think I found out why I didn’t really enjoyed the show.
Check this out.
Its basically about a story of a pirate in debt, uses all his ability to betray, lie, and manipulate in order to get away with it.

Enlightened?

Keke

Be prepared, Be really prepared!

2006-07-13T19:26:00.000+08:00

You've gotta watch this and tell me wat you think?

Tomorrow

2006-07-07T17:38:00.000+08:00

Muh sister is coming tomorrow!!
Haha, finally, I think shes really excited coming down here.
For me? .. well, im more worried for my mum.
She’s gonna be alone there.
Love you ma.

Talking bout mothers, heres something I found.
Have a BLESSED week everybody!

Superman

2006-07-05T18:39:00.000+08:00

Managed to watch Superman the other night with Carole and Nads. Was in a super rush, coz I had to move out from the old place, (yeah, still had a lot of stuff in the old place) coming to think of it, it’s amazing how banyak stuff ive got in that small lil room of mine!! Haha, now that ive got the whole apartment!! Worse!! Haha
Lets hope not!

Rushed everything from the old place and moved it to the new place. Skipped COUZ last minute coz of the fact that I couldn’t finish moving the stuff in time. Managed to settle everything by 9 sumthing. Drove to Nads place and picked up the two, and went over to KLCC for the show. Well, its more of a romantic love story rather than an action one. Superman did looked like superman! Haha, yeah, Brandon Routh did a great job potraying the character. Even managed to get both Nads and Carole to go “oohhh…” “hehehe” “awww” , and their endless giggles, throughout the whole show! Haha
It was entertaining watching them gaggling over the character! Haha

Well, the show was not the very best, but it was allrite. Not to fast, not too slow, a lil long, but I don’t mind. Since its SUPERMAN! Haha. A 5.5 outta 10.
Found out a makan place in KL which gives the best porridge! I rarely eat porridge, I mean rarely, even when im sick I will NOT eat porridge, but this porridge is really sumthing. What they put in it? Ahahah, NOTHING! Haha, just warm clean white porridge, and sesame oil! Syok!
Of course with the Roasted pork, Char Seu, and Sour Veg! syok orrrr!!!
And you wouldn’t guess the shop’s name!
Its called RESTORAN KOK KOK! I knw~ haha

England and Brazil crashed out, and you should knw this by now. If you really have NO idea, my Gawsh, Id say your worse than a bimbo! Haha
France played excellent football, England played a lousy game, more importantly they had their wonder boy acted like a 5 year old! Wether or not he kicked Carlvarho on purpose, he still acted like a kid pushing C.ronaldo! Was the red card warrant? Well, the ref confirmed today that it was because of the ‘cracking’ of PORTUGUESE Nuts!
But then if you guys watched the match, it didn’t SEEM that was the case.
Here take a look. Haha

My housemate came yesterday, and her name is Cynthia.
We woke up at 3am and went to watch the ITA vs GER game!
Very good game! I was supporting ITALIA.
I just hope that FRANCE don’t win it. I salute Zidane, but I just don’t like Henry and Viera, no doubt world class player, but they just irk me off with their passion and attitude towards the game. Just watch how he had to throw himself over, COVERING his face, when he had contact with the tiny Puyol! Oh well, don’t wanna elaborate on that. I just don’t like him! Great footballer, not a great player of the game!

Now to some fun stuff, if you’re a Malaysian, and one that knows what is happening around? YES, they found a flying elephant in Melaka!! NO LARRR! Haha
Well, you might have seen or heard bout the case of the MIRI high school gangsta-wannabe case. Right after that, this happened!

Keke…
(in case you didn’t knw, yeah, there was a star wannabe chick who gave that peace sign in the real video!! Haha..our society today! haihh)